Thursday, December 17, 2015

4 HOLIDAY STATE STEALERS REVEALED




When I think about the holidays I remember seeing them through the eyes of a child.  I recall the excitement and joy of Christmas as a young one looking up at the Christmas tree that seemed to go on forever with it’s sparkling lights and shiny ornaments, going sledding with my family and rushing inside with rosy cheeks for hot chocolate and cookies.  I remember the anticipation of Christmas morning and all the unexpected wonder it would bring.  I think back to that time in my life and everything seemed to come together seamlessly…the gifts magically appeared under the tree, the cookies wondrously appeared from the freezer to lovely Christmas trays.  I didn’t know or appreciate all the work and preparation that was going on behind the scenes to create those memories I love so much.  Now I am not saying Christmas as a child was perfect…oh no not at all..I also recall crazy family dynamics, fights and tension too.  However what I remember most about the holidays was happy memories. 

Now that I am grown with a family of my own, it’s only natural that I want to create a sense of wonder, excitement and joy in my own family.  

And yet as the holiday season rolls forward, sometimes it is difficult not to get swept away in searching for the perfect gift, stressing over money, spending hours making treats, and a “to do” list that begins to seam like it is a mile long monster that will never be completed.   

There have been times during the holidays when I have been so concerned with getting things done so we could have the "perfect Christmas" that I found myself distracted, stressed out and frustrated with the very people I wanted to feel those warm cuddly feelings towards.  

So how do we create the holiday season we so desperately desire and actually enjoy it? 


Before we can understand how to create the Christmas we desire, we first need an awareness of 4 holiday stealers that will creep up on our festivities and rob us of the joy we could have. When we are aware of these holiday stealers are we can spot them before they sneak into our festivities and stop them in their tracks so we can love the holidays. My husband described holiday state stealers best when he said if he could think of a holiday that would have everyone sad, grouchy and frustrated with each other, he would be sure to include massive doses of sugar, lack of sleep, busyness and overstimulation.  Sound familiar? So with all that stacked against us how do we create incredible memories? We identify the 4 holiday stealers and learn how we can manage them


STATE OF MIND

Holiday state stealers are notorious for robbing us of our state of mind.  State of mind is our ability to perceive and experience our life. When we are in a good state of mind we have an attitude of "it will work out" even when things aren't going the way we want them to. When we have a poor state of mind everything is harder and our patience fuse is shorter.  There are many things that can affect state of mind such as sleep, nutrition and the language we are using. I learned about managing state of mind to create the life I want in the Master Your Power Within Event. The speaker Brandon Broadwater spent a day on how we can manage our state using Higher Law Principles. Although I don't have time in this post to go through everything he covered in a whole day, I will give you a piece of it that will help you today and throughout the holidays.

4 HOLIDAY STEALERS

1. SWEET TRAP

The first potential holiday state stealer is sugar. Ever notice how much sugar is floating around at Christmas time? I know there are a lot of opinions about sugar but I think we can all agree that sugar has an effect on our bodies and that too much of it probably isn't great for our health. If you doubt that sugar affects the body just watch a child's behavior 40 minutes after they have sugar. Now does this happen only with children? Um nope...watch how you feel 40 minutes after having sugar. That's when the low kicks in and life does not seem quite as lovely. 

2. SLEEP SNARE

What is the next state stealer to be on the look out for that can rob us of Christmas magic?  Sleep...or rather lack of sleep to be specific.  I remember many Christmases waking up with overtired, heavy eyelids after staying up to the wee hours in the morning wrapping gifts and finding wide eyes filled with excitement and anticipation staring back at me.  My daughter Zoe had been awake for a long time just waiting for her overtired parents to roll out of bed and finally when she was tired of the wait she thought it best to do the sure fire "stand and stare" at us until we got up.  Seeing her there with full anticipation in her eyes, we could do nothing other than pour ourselves out of bed in hopes that Christmas magic would kick in and banish our overtired headaches.  I had prepared so much the night before in hopes for everything to be “perfect” that I missed what I wanted most.  I missed being present with my daughter during Christmas morning.  So what’s the answer?  How do we avoid the sleep snare this holiday season…we do all we can to get enough sleep and help our kids get enough sleep.  A rested family is a happy family.  

3. MORE IS NOT BETTER

There is one last state stealing culprit that if we don’t deal with, it will tangle the joy of the holidays.  This is one trap that society seems to push for so hard this time of year.  It is one that guilts us into buying too many presents, and going to every possible holiday event we hear about.  It is one that can rob us of what we truly want during the holidays whether that is to remember the spiritual gifts that the Christmas season represents or be closer to the people we love.  So what I am talking about?  I’m talking about the impulse to overdo Christmas. Overdo Christmas…what do I mean?  I mean overshot, overbuy, over schedule, over eat, over stimulate.  I’m talking about rather than simplifying the season…stuffing the season with more.  What are the costs of experiencing the holidays in this way?  Stress, frustration, fear of finances and a difficulty truly enjoying the holidays.  

4. PERFECTION MYTH

I don't know what it is about the holidays but we can often feel like everything needs to be perfect for it to be good. We search for the perfect gifts, we plan the perfect meal, we want the picture perfect family. However the reality is that it is never perfect! In fact we are never perfect! We aren't meant to be. Life is meant to be a little messy and it is okay. When we are stuck in thinking things need to be perfect, we miss the messy and beautiful wonder of the here and now. The moment when none of the kids are smiling in the Christmas photo and you look over at your partner and laugh at the crazy Christmas sweater you are wearing that your Aunt Greta gave you. 

HOLIDAY STEALERS IN ACTION

Weeks before a party I was hosting I spent hours making Christmas treats, cleaning my house to perfection and buying gifts for everyone who was coming.  And by the time the party arrived…I was exhausted.  I rushed around making sure punch bowls were filled, treats were stacked and everything was cleaned.  

And I missed it.  

At one point I remember looking around and seeing all my friends and family having a great time talking with one another and I realized that I hadn’t really connected with anyone and that I just wanted everyone to leave because I was tired and wanted to go to bed.  Now was that the snuggly Christmas feeling I was going for when I was planning the party?  Heck no!  I wanted to be closer to the people I love the most, I wanted to feel that Christmas spirit enter my heart.  I missed it because I wanted things to be “perfect”.  I’m grateful for that memory because it has been a constant reminder for me to simplify the Christmas season so I can actually enjoy it.

DIGGING DEEP

Okay so now you are armed with knowledge about the holiday stealers that are lurking about trying to take away your holiday fun. Now that you are aware of the things that can take out your holiday cheer, you can make a decision about how you can manage them so that you can experience the full spirit of Christmas this holiday season. It will take some work though. Managing these holiday state stealers takes some planning and a willingness to break through old patters. To help you on this path, I encourage you to answer the following questions to come up with a plan that will work for you this holiday season. 
  1. What is one thing you can do to manage the sweet trap?  (Maybe it is making healthy holiday treats so you have options or maybe it is having treats before bedtime to avoid the sugar crash) 
  2. When can you commit to going to bed so you get enough sleep?
  3. What is one way you can simplify the holidays?
  4. How can you remind yourself that the holidays aren't supposed to be "perfect"?

I know that doing these things has made a makes a huge difference in helping us love the holidays again. I know that as find ways to avoid the holiday stealers and find more ways to be even more present and create a simplified holiday season, you will feel more peace, joy and happiness this Christmas. I wish you and your family all the love and happiness that your heart can hold this holiday season.  

Much love,
Connie

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

THOUGHTS ON BRANDON BROADWATER - HIGHER LAWS SEMINAR

My thoughts on the "Master Your Power Within" seminar

Brandon Broadwater and Higher Laws


Have you ever had an unexpected person show up in your life that taught you exactly what you needed to learn in the very moment that you needed it? Brandon Broadwater is that person for me. I will never forget the first time I met him. A friend of mine invited me to the Master Your Power Within Event. As she enthusiastically raved about the speaker and how her life had completely changed because she went to the event I could tell that she was edging towards inviting me to attend.

I was reluctant to go to yet another event, especially after I had been burned so many times before by other speakers making grand promises of happiness, freedom and prosperity ending with only disappointment and a jaded view of undelivered promises.

I wondered how Brandon Broadwater could possibly be any different than what I had experienced before. I agreed to go to the Higher Laws event not knowing that my life was about to make a shift larger than anything I thought was possible and in a direction that would take me on a journey of adventure, hope and peace that would transform me forever.

The day of the Master Your Power Within Event arrived and as I looked up at the man on the stage, I thought "what's this guy going to teach me about life?" Then I saw something that I hadn’t seen before in all the past trainings I had gone to, I was shocked by the genuine look in his eyes and I started to ask myself “is it possible that this guy could be different?” As he began to speak, I felt the gentle arrows of truth pierce my soul. I could see that he cared about the people in that room and a seed of hope started to grow within me that maybe he would be able to help us create real change. Slowly my heart began to soften as if each truth he shared washed away one protective layer surrounding my heart at a time. This could not have been easy, as I had spent the better part of the last two decades allowing layers to accumulate in an attempt to protect what I so desperately wanted healed. He created opportunities for us to discuss my lessons with other participants and this allowed me to really process the principles he was teaching and get a clear picture of what I wanted different in my own life.

Brandon Broadwater at  Master Your Power Within Higher Laws seminar
Brandon Broadwater teaching at Master Your Power Within event - Higher Laws seminar

As my heart softened, I began to inch forward on my chair engaged the stories Brandon Broadwater told of his journey of going from a struggling student to becoming a millionaire by the time he was 29, and stories of lessons his wife Lesly taught him about creating loving and lasting relationships.

As Brandon Broadwater spoke something incredible happened, I began to understand why my life had gone in directions that I didn’t want it to go in the past and exactly what I could do to get it back in the direction I wanted it to go in. For the first time in as long as I could remember I felt excited about the future and hopeful about what was in store for my family as I continued on this path to discovery. So I listened and had my life change faster than I could have imagined.

 

My Life Before Master Your Power Within


There was a time when my life seemed perfect.  I was married to the most amazing man I had ever met, we were completely in love with each other. We got married and I thought that the connection and love we felt for one other would just keep getting better. 

Then as the years passed and after the birth of our first child, I noticed something shifting.

It was unnoticeable at first, just a few more hours watching television each night, a few date nights missed. Eventually it seemed as though the color we once had in our relationship was slowly draining out and we did not know where the paints were to add more. My husband who I had once looked at as the epitome of what I wanted in a man started to lose his luster as my endless pleas for help and support fell short. I was emotionally and physically disconnected from the one person I needed the most and the more he desperately tried to connect with me through physical touch, the more I withdrew from him.  I was resentful, disappointed and hurt and my husband Andy felt like he was failing me, frustrated and rejected. 

On top of the frustration that was building within our marriage, I was caught off guard with the realization that our first daughter, who I so desperately wanted had a mind of her own that didn’t jive sometimes with what I wanted her to do.  The "What the Expect When You’re Expecting" book had not prepared me for hours of crying, wakefulness and isolation that occurred as I desperately tried to survive my new parenting role. I remember many nights sitting in the dark bouncing my screaming child on the edge of bed with tears streaming down my face and looking over at my sleeping husband with resentment and bitterness growing in my heart.

The home and lifestyle that we wanted and saw our friends enjoying became more difficult to afford and so we compensated with magical credit that we did not have a plan to pay off.  The stress of our financial situation carried with it such a weight that I would cry every time I worked on our budget as I struggled to find a way to dig our way out of the financial hole we were in. At one point I recall feeling a sense of utter anxiety as I was faced with the realization that we were nearly $100,000 in debt and we were going deeper in debt by $1200 every month. I saw no way out

I remember at one point sitting on the couch with my husband Andy watching television, I looked over at him and paused the show.  Then I said something to him that I will never forget and that made us both become aware of the depth of the situation we were in and the need for us to do something different.  I turned to him and I said “Is this all there is?” There was a stunned and hurt look in his eyes as he began to comprehend my dissatisfaction with our life and our need to change things. 

At that moment we knew things needed to be different but we had no idea how to recover from our dissatisfied marriage, regain financial control, and find joy and peace in our lives again.

Then I met someone who would change the course of our lives forever and give us the answers we longed for about how to create abundance in all areas of life; financially, in our relationship, in our parenting roles and in our ability to have purpose and happiness in this life. 


I am so grateful for the struggles we went through because it began a process of lasting change.  The pain of our situation allowed us to have the desire we needed to find tools and support to create life we want and gave us the hope and trust we needed to attain it. The help came in the form of an unexpected teacher. Once we began being students again and learning how to create a life of connection, abundance, and hope, our lives shifted beyond what I believed was possible.  The joy I felt I had lost returned with a greater measure than before.

So what has changed since meeting Brandon Broadwater?  Everything! 

Changes in Me

The biggest change that has happened is within me. I used to feel like I was on an emotional roller coaster, being pulled around by the circumstances and feelings of the day. I didn’t understand how to have my priorities in order and how to turn things around when I was in a rut in my life. As Jim Rohn once said “for things to change, I must change. For things to be better, I must be better.” So that is exactly where I started to create lasting change in my life. I began working on changing myself, and doing that one thing created momentum that allowed everything else to fall into place. As I learned how to manage my priorities, I became empowered because I realized that although I could not control all the things that happen to me, I can control my response to them. At the Master Your Power Within event I learned about the 4 primary laws of success, which helped me to finally understand why my life was not going the way I wanted it to and I learned the specific steps to take to create the life I want. A life centered around giving and feeling loved, helping those around me and being connected to my creator. I can honestly say that because of the principles I learned at the Master Your Power Within event, everything shifted for me. I fell in love with my husband again, I found the joy in being a mom that I so desperately desired, our financial situation completely turned around and I felt the true happiness I longed for.

Changes in My Marriage

Now my relationship with my husband Andy is better than the day we got married.  He knows what to do to be my hero and I know what to do to hit his heart and make him feel loved.  Our relationship has completely turned around in all areas...emotionally, spiritually and yes...even physically!  One of the moments that made me realize just how much life had changed was one day in a coffee shop when I received an unexpected email.  I was waiting for some girlfriends for lunch and opened my e-mail to keep myself occupied in the busy cafe.  I saw an email from Andy and when I clicked on the button to open the e-mail I was overcome by the thoughtful and vulnerable message that was waiting for me.  You see, Andy hates writing poetry but he loves me and he knows how much I love receiving a poem written for me.  So despite his dislike in writing poetry, he had painstakingly written me a love poem.  As I began reading his words, a feeling of being loved so deeply welled up inside of me and I started to tear up.  In that moment my girlfriends arrived and saw me sitting alone at the table with tears welling in my eyes. They asked me what was wrong and when I said "it's Andy", they wrongly assumed the worst because that's the common story is this world. When I explained that Andy had sent me a love poem, an audible awe drifted across our table and as they read the poem they began to tear up too.  In that moment Andy had shown me that he cared more about hitting my heart than he did for his own comfort and since that day he has done so many incredibly loving gestures that have brought us closer together.  As my husband Andy has won my heart over, I have been entirely motivated to show him how much I love him and let him know that he has become the man of my dreams. 

Changes in Parenting

After learning some principles about state management at the Master Your Power Within event, I went from being the angry, stressed out mom to becoming more of the mom I wanted to be with more patience and love for her than I knew possible. I remember one time feeling particularly mad at the massive atomic meltdown that Zoe was having in our kitchen. I could feel the frustration well up inside me to the point where my face was getting hot. In the past I would have broke down in frustration and yelled at Zoe even though that’s not how I wanted to handle things. Since learning the 5 keys to having an amazing state at the worst of times, I knew there was a different way I could go. A way that would leave me feeling more empowered as a parent and Zoe feeling more loved. So I stopped in the chaos of Zoe screaming and started doing jumping jacks in our kitchen. Zoe looked up with me shocked by what she was seeing and in a moment of disbelief her tantrum stopped and her mouth hung open. The next things she did was started doing jumping jacks with me! Now we were both in the kitchen doing jumping jacks together and laughing! From that one decision, the destiny of our entire day changed. 

Now years later I have two more little ones and although logically I should be more stressed out, I’m not. I feel much more relaxed and have more fun with my kids in small daily moments of joy throughout the day. I’m not perfect but when I make a mistake, I get back up fast and do the next right thing. I have pure moments built into my day now that bring me so much happiness. Zoe and I have a ritual that we sit on our two seater swing in our back yard for her night time snuggle time. We grab a cozy blanket and cuddle together under the stars while I tell her what I love about her and ask about her favorite part of the day. Zoe often tells me her favorite part is “right now”. Sitting under the stars cuddled in a blanket talking about her day allows us to end the day on a high and have a small daily routine that brings us closer together.  

Changes Financially

Our finances have totally turned around too! Before attending the Master Your Power Within event, we were in the hole $1200 a month and in debt close to $100,000.  After applying the principles that Brandon Broadwater taught us we have paid off more debt than we ever have before (around $90,000) and in a place where we can save 10 percent of our income & give away over 10 percent of our income We were able to move out of survival mode to create the life of our dreams with traveling to places like Hawaii and Disneyland and moving to a beautiful warm place with palm trees.

Using the principles of the 4 keys of business I was able to replace our employment income so I could live my dream of staying home to raise our kids. Andy was able to replace his income from his job too and now he is able to be home with us so he no longer misses out on midday milestones like seeing our little baby Arya walk for the first time!  

Changes in Health

We were always relatively active people but never had a beat on eating healthy food consistently. Our vision of healthy eating was a salad with our burgers. Andy was told by his doctor that he would need to lose a great deal of weight and that his hereditary cholesterol problem would require him to go on medication. His doctor was not optimistic that dietary changes would stop him from needing to go on medication. He thought he would try anyway. Then we learned about the HealthFix program at a Higher Laws event and everything shifted for us. Since participating in the 30 day Healthfix program, Andy has lost over 25 pounds, reversed his cholesterol condition so that he does not need to take medication and is looking pretty smoking hot to this happy wife. I have lost over 5 pounds and can finally fit into my pre pregnancy jeans and have more energy than I ever have before. Our family now knows how to have family bright futures around healthy food and our kids get pretty excited about vegan milkshakes and green smoothies.  

Changes in My Spirituality

The principles I learned from Higher Laws helped me go from a place of having a distant, blaming relationship with God to a place where I know and feel connected and loved by the Creator.  I finally know my purpose in this life and am living that purpose. I feel more happiness and peace than I ever have before.

I know that Higher Laws principles change lives so if you would like more happiness, more financial freedom, more love and connection, more purpose in your life, I encourage you to attend a free Path to Prosperity Workshop in your area. Path to Prosperity workshops are 2 hour free workshops that cover some important Higher Laws principles. You also get a free catered meal when you attend the workshop! To find out more information or register for the next Path to Prosperity workshop in your area, call 702-577-1675.

I cannot say how grateful I am for Higher Laws and the difference it has made in my life.  Since my first event five years ago I have had the opportunity to get to know Brandon Broadwater and his family personally and I am constantly in awe of how much love they have for each other and the people they serve.  It truly is an honor to know Brandon and to have learned the lessons Higher Laws taught me so that I could create the life I have always dreamed of.  So thank you, Brandon Broadwater, for helping me to create a life of adventure, passion, connection and love.  

Much love,
Connie 

Friday, March 20, 2015

TOP REASON WOMEN COME LAST...AND HOW TO COME FIRST!

In today's society women come last.  Who are the biggest culprits creating this epidemic of stressed out and overwhelmed proportions?  Is it egotistical men?  How about society?

Nope it's actually women putting themselves last.  What?! Did I really just say that.  You bet! So how can I make a crazy claim that women come last because of women?  I can because I have done this myself and have seen so many women make this deadly mistake.  It is in the very nature of the feminine to put others before herself...often to the detriment of her health, overall well being and the relationships she desires the most.

So what is the answer to this epidemic of women being over worked, over tired, over stressed and coming in last?  

It's simple...by aligning to one principle women are able to take back their lives and feel more happy, more in control, more connected with the people they love and...wait for it...this is a gooder...actually enjoy life!

Before I dive into the one principle that allows women to experience this level of effectiveness, peace and joy let me ask you a question.  When you think of the main priorities that a women faces such as being connected to a higher power, herself, kids, partner and public (everyone else). Who usually comes first?  Usually kids come first, then partner, then public, then herself and a connection to a higher power.  What is the result of this?  Feelings of resentment towards her partner (any wonder that 50% of marriages end in divorce?), frustration with parenting, lack of energy and feeling overwhelmed.

So what is the answer so that women can come first in a happy, healthy and productive way?  What sets women free to feel more joy, love and effectiveness in their lives?  Well when I learned about this principle at the Mastering Your Power Within 3 day event with Higher Laws, I went from being disconnected from my husband, stressed out with my daughter and feeling like everyone was pulling me in a million directions to a place where I now have the energy and love needed to create a marriage that's better than the day we got married, I love being home raising my kids (now I have two and one on the way so I needed all the help I could get!) and I actually want to help those around me because I have the energy to do it!

Okay I promised you the principle that completely shifted everything for me and so many of the women I have worked with as a master coach so here it is.

What sets women free to come first in their own lives is to change our priorities to a happy, health and productive order.  So what is that order?  It is having a connection with the divine or Creator first, taking care of yourself, then your partner, then kids, and then everyone else.  Sounds good in principle doesn't it but you might be wondering how do I actually do that when I have a million things to do and my to do list looks like a scary two headed monster.  I promise you that it is easier than you think and when you do it you will have the energy you need to not only slay that two headed monster to-do list but actually enjoy life while doing it!  All you need to do is follow these four simple steps.

4 Steps to Happy, Healthy & Productive Priorities

1. Creator - Find one thing to connect with your Creator first (prayer, meditation, saying thanks)
2. Yourself - Do one thing everyday that gives you more energy (walk, find 5 things your grateful for, health smoothie)
3. Partner - Do one thing to connect with your partner (share 1 thing you admire about him, give a hug)
4. Parent - Find one way to hit your kids hearts (tickle little ones, ask how their feeling, give a hug)
5. Public - Do one thing to serve someone outside your family (help someone, smile)

I promise that as you shift your priorities using the 4 Steps to Happy, Healthy & Productive Priorities you will have more energy, get more things done (the most important things) and you will feel more love for the people around you.  So ladies stop coming in last and start putting yourself first so you can create the life you want!

If you want a free coaching session to find more ways to create even more peace, effectiveness, financial success and happiness in your relationships e-mail andy@higherlaws.com.

Connie


Monday, March 2, 2015

UNLEASH THE HERO IN YOUR MAN!

The biggest complaint most women have is than men in their life simply won’t step it up. 

The secret that most women don’t know is that they hold the keys to unleashing the hero within their man

The best part is that the key is to unleashing the hero in your man is in four simple steps.  

With the four steps to unleashing your man you will learn here, you will be able to not only ask for what you want but will actually get it!  When I didn’t know about these four steps to unleashing your man I was frustrated, angry and resentful about why my husband would not do what I asked him to do.  Once Brandon Broadwater shared these four steps to unleashing your man with me, it was incredible how my husband Andy went from being the guy I would nag to clean up the kitchen to being the guy that would do anything to clean up the kitchen because he knew it was important to me.  He became my hero!  

The first step in unleashing your man is seeing him in a positive light.  For most people this change needs to come from within first so where do you start when you just see the dirty clothes he left lying on the floor and his breathing sounds annoying?  Start by thinking about 1-3 things you admire about him everyday…go on ladies you can find 1 thing! 

The second step is to tell him in a way he can hear!  Have you ever had the experience of trying to talk to your partner only to feel completely unheard as he vacantly watches sports or his favourite show?  That is because you are not using your full feminine power and speaking in a way he can hear.  What do I mean?  Let me ask you a question…do men live in the emotional or the physical world?  The physical right?  So if you want him to hear you…you gots to touch him!  I’m not talking about anything sexual so get your minds out of the gutter!  Touch the back of his neck, arm or shoulder before you open your mouth and just watch what happens.  When I first tried this out with Andy, his head spun around so fast to listen to me that I was a little concerned about whiplash!  

The third step to unleashing your man is to tell him what you admire about him. How often do we think something kind and loving about someone and we don’t tell them?  When I first tried this Andy was sitting at the kitchen table, his body was hunched over his work.  I walked up, touched the back of his neck and immediately got his attention.  Then I looked him in the eyes and told him what I admire about him.  I said “Andy I really admire how much you love us and are willing to do anything for us.”  You know how he responded?  Have you ever seen those foot pumps for air mattresses?  You know the kind where you step on it and then a puff of air goes into the mattress?  Well giving Andy those admirations was just like pumping him up.  I said the first one and he sat a little taller, then the next one he started smiling and by the third one he had a huge grin on his face and his chest was puffed out a little.  He was the man!  It was as though a switched turned on within him and this hunger to hit my heart was lit within him.  

The fourth step is to ask for what you want.  Ladies how can we expect our men to read our minds?  The only way to get what we want is to ask for it in a way he can hear.  So how do we do that?  Ask for one specific thing! How I did this with Andy is I said “There’s just one small thing that if you did it, it would totally hit my heart. If you could clean up your dishes when you’re done.” You know what he did?  He did it!  He cleaned up his dishes because he felt admired, and he knew how much it meant to me.  

So what are the 4 steps to unleashing your man? Here’s a recap...
1. Find 1-3 things you admire about who he is as a person (loving husband, devoted dad)
2. Touch him (back of his neck, arm, shoulder)
3. Tell him what you admire about him!
4. Ask for one specific thing you need (“there’s one small thing that if you did it would hit my heart. If you could pick up your socks it would mean so much to me.”)

I know that if you follow the four steps to unleashing your man you will find even more love and fullfillment in your relationship and your man will be even more of the hero he can be. I am so grateful for learning about these 4 steps to unleashing your man at the Mastering Your Power Within 3 Day Event with Higher Laws. I wish I could give you everything that I learned there that took my marriage from “okay” to "better than the day we got married” but Brandon Broadwater uses an entire day to cover the higher laws of relationships.  I can tell you this though…start with the 4 steps to unleashing your man and I promise you will be shocked at how much more willing your partner is to do the things you need him to do!

Interested in more information about how to have even more love in your relationships and you want a complimentary coaching session with a master coach call 702-577-1676 or e-mail andy@higherlaws.com.

Use the 4 steps to unleashing your man and tell me how it goes!  I would love to hear your stories.  

Connie